Day1 report

Posted on 23rd December 2007 by unwindmy in Journal

today I will go out for 3 hours.

I will meet 10 women.

my sticking point:

I will get as many numbers as possible.

Day1 Report: Solo. There was beautiful women everywhere. I managed to approach 6 out of 10 women in the 3 hours. The approaches were fucking abysmal. I’ve been doing this stuff for over a year now, and now know that when it comes to the crunch, this is all I can muster - A handful of conversations that I was lucky to get over 5 seconds. The last girl blew me out completely.

I’ve been always avoided pressure based targets like this because I know that I can’t achieve them. Normally, I go about my day to day business, and somehow I end up with the odd number. I’m great at conversations when I do it like this. I can go for hours when there is no pressure, but its just not enough anymore.
Today is the angriest I have been in years. Every time I failed it welled up inside me. The last woman I saw, I shouted for her to turn around, seeing that she wasn’t going to. I mumbled to myself, and it felt like the last straw. My throat began to seize up and eventually on the way home, I broke down and started crying.

This was the reality of my pain. I’m going to have to fight through this now again and again, until it goes away.

Making a weekly plan

Posted on 23rd December 2007 by unwindmy in Journal

Its time to make a plan for myself that I can stick to.

I will go out 3 times a week to meet women.
I will not go home until have I approached 10 women, or I have been out for 3 hours - whichever comes first.

I will go out with a particular sticking point in mind to work on.
I will use this blog to keep me motivated.

Current list of sticking points I will work on:

I will initiate physical contact with every girl I approach.

I will attempt a location change within the venue of every girl I approach.
I will attempt to bounce every girl I approach.

I will attempt to kiss every girl I approach. 

I will number close every girl I approach.

I will keep track of the numbers I get by keeping a log of each girl in my phone.
I will come up with an extraction plan, so that I always know where to bounce a girl.
I will leave a message with every number I get, before going out again.
I will isolate every girl that I go on a day2 with.
I will come up with a plan to isolate consistently.