Looking for love? Look for lust instead…
I realised something today. There is no “in love”, there is only “in lust”.
To be in love implies that we can love somebody more than somebody else. Love is not something that can be measured, it is a constant and an underlying feeling. Likewise it is not something to be ‘aimed’ at a person, it is simply a state of being.
There is a seperation between the being of “being in love” and the actual love that a person feels for another. What is actually being is lust (or sex).
I’d never thought of it like that before. Society has got this all confused.
So when a person (such as myself) feels the sorrow of a lost love, what they are actually experiencing is fundamentally the absence of sex with that person.
So when I meet somebody new, the emotions I feel are not a desire to be in love but a desire to have sex. This should make approaching a woman a little easier.
If all I desire from a woman is sex, I can express that quite freely!
All the love I need is within.
um its like this, even now at night, much later in unguarded moments on my own, as i lay down to bed, i sometimes whisper to a forgotten lover.
Comment by a freind — March 3, 2008 @ 4:49 pm